Thursday, December 01, 2005

True Love / Love At First Sight

Between the ages of a fetus and 16 I believed in soul-mates. I thought there to be only one person for everyone and God would eventually bring that person to you if you were just patient enough to wait. Between 16 and 18, my views changed a little on that thought. I then believed there to be many possiblities and that you can be happy with a few different people in your life.

When I was 16 I thought that I was in love. We talked about marriage and everything. I realize now that I was way to immature and young to even know what love was. That relationship didnt go well and didnt last. Now I am still great friends with her, but could never imagine myself with her. 17 came, again I thought that I was in love. I didnt date her for a while though. She had a boyfriend. Eventually we got together. But again, I was more just settling that "in love." Happy I wasnt. Now I was at times but over all...no. We dated until I was 20. We broke up once but eventually got back together. We rushed into an engagement to which we were not ready for. I felt love for her, and I believe she loved me, but true love...she wasnt and isnt mine, just as I am not hers. We broke up.

I am now with the person that I know I will be with for the rest of my life. She is my true love. She is everything that I could possibly want and so much more. Meets all my wants and needs and surpasses both. Was it love at first sight i'm not sure....I knew that I loved her fairly quick though. I dated her for a month or so a while back. I knew in about two weeks that I had feelings of "love" for her. We broke up though and that is when I decided to settle. Thankfully that relationship didnt last.

So anyways...Love at first sight. I always said that I never believed in it. But seeing as how I knew that I loved my girl so quick, I cant denounce the thought of it. Now back to my old belief of Soul-Mates...I now believe in them. I know now that I would not and could not be happy with anyone but the girl that I am with now. I thank God for bringing me to her. Amazing.

Well I hope that everyone is as happy as I am. I hope everyone is having a good day and I'll talk later, adios.

10 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok......what odd planet did you come from??? and how in the HELL do i get there??? if i were to meet a guy as good as you,(coming from a friend)who acted anything like you i think with in an hour id be on a plane to Vages and would be married with in an hour of being there. even in our friendship you have been a Prince Charming!!!!!! You know how to make someone smile on the worst day of their life or to just say the right thing to make a good day better ur a sweetheart and i have to admit if you were closer ur girl friend would have a run for her money........ NO She wouldnt i wouldnt mess with a guy who is in a relationship and i obviously missed my chance!!!!!!!!!!lol i hope through email or whatever we can keep intouch forever and i get to start the pic i promised you tomorrow hopefully by this weekend you can have it to share... i think i have now officially written the longest comment know to blogs but no one else has written anything so i have the freedom to do as i wish...... friends forever!!!! and i mean ever!!!!!

~ALY~

7:53 PM  
Blogger Christopher said...

Well Miss Aly...that was by far the best comment I have ever had and one of the best compliments ever. I know for a fact that you and everyone else will find your "Prince Charming" hee hee hee. Just have to be patient...which of course is the hard part. But no matter what happens I will definitely stay in touch. Even if you are a little "terd" lol, you've been an awesome friend and wouldnt trade you in for anything. I love you and hope everything is going well.

8:46 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

honestly im not weird i promise i see the whole problem to be..... that you are just normal!!! and if i could help you with that problem i would but i cant so maybe you can just let Chris get his messages and respond to the ones he puts up cause i atleast let him know who is leaving the message and i know he understands what im saying. if i really wanted to talk with id be glad to leave u messages too but since this blog is chris's ill keep leaving him the messages and u can like it or not i really dont care.... oh yeah chris IWU
enjoy
~aly~

5:53 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You are still great friends with this girl you thought you were in love with? Oh Congrats on the wedding and all. I am sure this new relationship will be definately better than the one you had with your aweful ex.

7:49 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ok im gonna end this ur absolutly right im ridiculous. i havent ever done anything right and in the third grade i was the one who put the glue in ur hair ill take the blame for anything just put it right on me. ill make the official announcment on CNN tomorrow morning but just so u can see it earlier here goes....... I Alyson ****** ******** am the most ridiculous person in the world and i have been the main cause of the ruination of the world (hey did i miss anything???) hope everyone enjoyed that luckily i dont give a shit what people think so believe what u wish to........
to everyone else have a great day!!!!! mr christopher get ur butt back here

5:09 PM  
Blogger Christopher said...

Annie -

I enjoy all the readers I can get as I stated earlier. But i'm getting a little tired of you. You keep calling "my friend" Aly all of these things sayings she's immature, but you keep bringing it back up. That right there shows me that you are the immature one. If you dont like what she has to say, stay off my blog. Otherwise, shut the @%&*$ up and grow up.

11:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

no Mr. Christopher please say what you are really feeling dont hold back any feelings we would like to hear about them all.......anyways hope you are feeling better and ur day is going ok im getting ready for my 2 tests *yikes* but ill live i think keep me in your thoughts and ill be home after 730 hope to talk to u then
~aly~

11:56 AM  
Blogger Christopher said...

Annie -

Ok look...i'm not one to get mad and lose my temper, but your pushing a few of my buttons. Starting to annoy me a little. Show me that your the bigger person and just shut the hell up. Dont say another word...prove to me that your better then her and I and just drop everything...This is my blog, not yours...why dont you give me your blogs address and we'll see what all you have to say.

11:40 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Christopher dont worry about her i send u messages i dont care about anyone who responds if i send u a message then i want u to see it if they decide to respond at the same time dont worry i dont give a shit. so dont get upset im not letting a message from someone i dont know worry me... plus like i told her if she really knows me she would have called or emailed me to prove it so im not worried at all about someone going around claiming to know strangers couldnt care less!!!!!!!!!!!!

4:51 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Mr Christopher Jace Harvey...... i havent heard from you in forever!!!!!!!! hope ur feeling better im felling pretty crappy but ill hopefully live through it... keep me in ur thoughts and prayers im goin throgh some family crap blah so ill catch u later

8:10 PM  

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